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Yuri !! ★

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Yuri Wiki	For accessing information about yuri, the gene, & anime belonging to it !!!
Anime-Planet / Yuri Anime	A list of yuri anime that you can watch from the same site ! (Legal)
Yuricon	Yuri news & Fansite.
Yuri Anime News	Ehehhehe I mean. They have many socials you can follow such as Facebook, Instagram, Bluesky...
Yuri Times	Newspaper that is much more important than New York Times.
Yuri Empire	You heard 'em. On your knees !!!!!!
Lililicious.net	0:< I dislike the mods of this site as they openly hate gay men.
r/Yuri Nation	Yuri Subreddit yaaaaaaaaaaaay
Itch.io / #Lesbian Tag	Lesbian games !!! For lesbian !!!
Itch.io / #Yuri Tag	Yuri Games !!! For yuri !!!
Yuribooru	Image board !!!
F/F Archive of Our On	Fan ficton !!!

Yaoi !! ★

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Yaoi Wiki	Pretty much every piece of yaoi ever
Anime-Planet / Yaoi Anime	A list of yaoi anime that you can watch from the same site ! (Legal)
EverythingYaoi	A news source for yaoi !!!
BleedingCool / Boy's Love News	More yaoi NEEEEEEEEEEWWWWWWWWWWSSSSSS
Sublime	Englishly liscensed yaoi publisher !!! Read yaoi here !!! (Legal)
Yaoi Playground	Yaoi wordpress, they post reviews & News !!!!! UWU
r/WholesomeYaoi	Pretty much every yaoi subreddit are SFW ! This is the most popular one :3
The Yaoi Army	I sure hope I fuckig get drafted hell yes
Itch.io / #Gay Tag	Gay Games !!! For gay !!!
Itch.io / #Yaoi Tag	Yaoi Games !!! For yaoi !!!
M/M Archive of Our Own	Fan ficton !!!

Terminology !! ★

As a fictional character trope

How About Something...Informative ?~

YES, It's OK !! ★

The following explanation uses yaoi as a basis but everything following applies to yuri / himejoshi / himedanshi as well !

Yes, it is generally considered okay to be a fujoshi (a female fan of male-male romance/Boys' Love content). Engaging with fictional, creative content is a personal interest that is not inherently harmful or wrong. The key distinction is maintaining a clear boundary between fiction and reality, ensuring that fictional interests do not lead to the fetishization or disrespect of real-world LGBTQ+ people. Key Aspects of Being a Fujoshi:

Reclaimed Identity: Originally, "fujoshi" (meaning "rotten girl") was a pejorative term, but it has been largely reclaimed by fans.

Fiction vs. Reality: It is important to remember that Boys' Love (BL) is a genre of fiction. Problems arise only when these fictional tropes are applied to, or imposed on, real-life interactions.

Diverse Fanbase: The community is diverse, and enjoying BL content does not automatically imply homophobia or negative intentions, despite some discourse suggesting otherwise.

Respect is Key: As long as you maintain respect and kindness toward real queer individuals, indulging in BL as a hobby is considered a harmless personal interest.

I'm a boy who loves yaoi. I don't identify as a fudanshi , personally my love of yaoi is more along the lines of loving other boys , & as a gay man loving other men who will love me. I don't watch anime or play otomes ... but you heard it here first, from a very , very gay person who is not a rotten person : being fujo is OK. It's literally a form of feminism to empower women to enjoy the content they want even if it's "unladylike". you can love reading & watching your gay fluff , your gay smut , making gay headcanons of everything that shows up in the background , & there is no shame in who you are.

You are fetishizing no one ! You are sexualizing no one !

Not to mention how silly it is that people who hate fujo / fudan / himejo / himedan are literally always cishet ... they don't speak for us & never , ever will !